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July 5: Your Independence Day

July 4, 2016 By Larry Hochman 11 Comments

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I love Independence Day.

I love the fireworks. I love seeing the faces of children as they look up at the sky. And I love seeing the faces of parents as they watch their kids.

I love watching the Macy’s Fireworks parade on television with my wife. The patriotic songs from the military bands. The not so patriotic pop acts.

I love driving to the field on the hill in our town. A prime spot to see live fireworks from miles around.

I love knowing our country was born of a desire to escape persecution and tyranny. I love knowing people were willing to throw down body and soul with everything they had to establish their independence. I love that a perfectly imperfect republic came as a result of it, one that continues 240 years later.

I love July 4.

And I love July 5 more.

Because after the celebrations, the pomp, the pageantry, the barbecues, the fireworks…

Comes July 5.

And July 6.

And August 1. And November 12, etc.

Now it starts.

It’s easy to celebrate independence. Living it is a whole other story.

Quick history: July 4 was the day the Declaration of Independence was signed by all the delegates. In reality, the war started the year before and didn’t officially end until 1783.

Yeah, it was a war. Nine years of terrible suffering, deprivation and any number of things that made the colonists question their commitment.

And after the war, a new nation that had to figure everything out, and still fend off the British, the Mexicans, the Spanish and Native Americans (the injustice behind that being a whole other story).

No one went, “Presto! You have independence! Congratulations!”

Everything that comes after the decision is when it happens.

Because if you don’t defend your commitment – if you don’t live it – you don’t get to keep it.

Whatever your building in your life – your business, your career, your relationships, your health, your spirituality – if you don’t live it everyday, you don’t get to keep it.

By all means, celebrate the event. Celebrate the signing.

The joy of the real works starts afterward.

Happy July 5. It’s your time.

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: Attraction Marketing, coaching, how to make more money, Law of Attraction

Know How To Lose

April 25, 2016 By Larry Hochman 16 Comments

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Seems like a strange thing to say, doesn’t it.

I mean all of us know how to use. In every head to head competition, exactly half the players are going to lose.

That describes every one of us.

And when we strive to do something new, we fail. Often.

Unless we set our sights so insanely low that we never lose. But then, we never achieve anything.

That doesn’t describe you. Otherwise you would have never arrived at this post.

So yeah, in one sense we all know how to lose.

The thing is, most of us don’t know how to lose productively and constructively.

We internalize failure rather than use it as a platform for growth.

Think back to the last time you were reaching for something difficult, and you didn’t make it.

How did it feel?

What was your emotional response to failure? What was your first instinct? To lash out? To blame someone or something for the loss?

To play the victim card? “Poor me! I’m not smart enough/strong enough/good enough!”

Did you convince yourself you didn’t really want what you were striving for in the first place?

One of the modern classics of business and personal development is The One Minute Millionaire, by Robert G. Allen and Mark Victor Hansen. The fictional story around the lessons packs an emotional wallop.

One of the most memorable lines is in the nonfiction part. (Sheer genius: the left side of the book is the fictional story; the right side is a “how to manual” for becoming a millionaire. Both parts are in perfect sync.)

Four simple words…

Live Above The Line.

When we try at something and fail, there is a line. Below it is blame. It’s what I described a few paragraphs above. That negative emotional response to failure. It makes us afraid of risk, and leads to a spiral of underachieving and living small.

Above the line is learn. That is when we drop our defenses. Our need to blame someone or something for our lack of success.

Indeed, it’s where we stop seeing losing as a negative. It’s where we celebrate the chance to get stronger, smarter and better.

And for those who are really emotionally mature, it’s a chance to congratulate, make friends with and seek help from the winners.

Because who you spend most of your time and energy with is who you become.

And most winners really enjoy pouring into losers who embrace the experience, and decide to learn from it.

That’s how virtually all winners got to be winners in the first place!

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There’s one basic trick in knowing how to lose…

Stop thinking of it as losing.

Call it a step on the road to winning.

Or call it an awesome lesson.

Or call it a reminder that you aren’t yet ready for the success that comes with winning.

Change the emotional response to losing.

And get ready for a whole bunch of winning!

 

YOUR TURN

When was the last time you felt great about losing?

What kind of victory did it help you get ready for?

Comment below. Like, share and Tweet above. Someone is looking for your example in how to lose.

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On The Radio

April 17, 2016 By Larry Hochman 3 Comments

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Tell me the Donna Summer song isn’t on your mind!

Last Saturday I got to spend just under an hour  playing on Justin Barclay’s Life On Purpose show on The Blaze Radio Network.

If you don’t Justin, you will.

He’s a “reformed shock jock” who used to do drive time radio in the Detroit media market.

Now he’s taking his skills and talents to our field, and a lot of people are better for it.

CLICK HERE and get in on the fun.

Seriously…he brought some good stuff out of me. You can benefit from it.

And please…get that Donna Summer song out  of your head! 😉

Justin Barclay

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Plan B: Home Business Success With A Flat Tire

April 12, 2016 By Larry Hochman 2 Comments

Truth: I’m not always in love with having a Plan B.

If your Plan B is something you use to avoid making a commitment to your success, it defeats the purpose.

And I really don’t enjoy seeing people talking about the same hopes and dreams year after year without taking massive, focused action to make it happen.

But I do like seeing people decide what they want, then be flexible on the ways to get there.

Because when your daughter’s car has a flat tire, and it throws the plans you have into chaos…

Yeah, a Plan B is good.

So…what’s yours?

 

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Suddenly…

March 16, 2016 By Larry Hochman 4 Comments

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(Make sure you read to the bottom. I want you to have success “suddenly” hit you between the eyes.)

Success pops up when you least expect it.

Or maybe you’re expecting it, then forget about it because you’re so in the middle of the thing you love to do…

That when it pops up, you didn’t see it coming.

But that’s not most people.

Most people grind it out for a little while, then they give up and look for the next “shiny object.”

That’s not you. Otherwise you probably wouldn’t be reading this.

The more successful people imagine their success.

Then they decide they’re worth it.

Then they come up with a plan.

Then they execute it.

Then they work it and fine tune it over time.

Takes a while. They get little tastes of success.

Then suddenly…

BOOM!!!

Success.

Which for most people is money.

Or weight loss.

Or a warm body to wake up next to.

But for what we’re doing here, it’s usually business success.

Let’s make it so that you’re on the right path.

Let’s make it so that you’re working a plan that will allow you to have fun while you’re doing it.

Let’s make it so that one day, in the middle of doing your thing, having fun, getting some followers, making some friends, making some money…

Suddenly…

BAM!!!

A Big Check.

Or a promotion, or rank advancement.

An invitation to speak in front of lots of people, if that’s your thing.

The confidence of knowing what you were doing all along was the right thing, no matter what the doubters told you.

Get in on the “Suddenly.”

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Your chance to make “Suddenly” happen a whole lot quicker.

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It’s your time.

 

P.S.: Read that part again about having a whole lot of fun while you’re doing your deal.

I don’t know about you, but I didn’t sign up to be miserable while I was building my brand, honing my skills and creating the lifestyle I love…with people I love.

If that’s what you’re doing, let’s fix that.

Together.

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: Attraction Marketing, coaching, Diane Hochman, How to succeed in home business, Personal Branding

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