STOP BEING A VICTIM
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You don’t get victimized by people who wish bad stuff for you. That (almost) never happens.
There are three main reasons why you feel like a victim.
And that’s any kind of victim…relationships, finances, health, the whole enchilada…
1. You bought into the myth of thinking you aren’t good enough…that you somehow had to become someone or something else, rather than let the Divine force already in you move closer to the surface.
(And you can talk the talk of self-esteem and positive affirmations all you want…for most of us the default position is “I’m Not Worthy!”)
2. You indulge in automatic, unconscious emotional responses to things that happen to you, rather than stop, breathe, live in the present moment and see things clearly, and not from past pain.
3. Your intention isn’t strong enough. You don’t know what you want.
Or you kinda/sorta do know, but you don’t make a commitment to it.
So people do what is good for them, and use your energy and resources (time, work and money) to make it happen.
That’s where my saying comes from…
“People who don’t have burning desire, healthy ambition and measurable goals are leveraged by people who do.”
I’m sure we could think of some others, but those seem to be the big three.
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I have a solution. It’s actually one that’s worked for a whole bunch of people.
Because it hits the “Big Three” dead on.
And it lets you do it in a way that keeps your sense of humor and play.
That’s always more fun than beating yourself senseless trying to fix your past mistakes.
(Which by the way, you won’t ever do…they’re in the past. So stop trying.)
I’ve put together a How To Receive: SPRING CLEARING Package.
(Notice the spelling…that’s cleaRing, as in making a clear space for all the good stuff you want.)
Here’s what’s in store….
* HOW TO RECEIVE: The Ebook. ($47.00 value) Step by step instructions on what to do, how to do it, how to think and feel while you do it, and how to LOVE the process of doing it.
* HOW TO RECEIVE: The audio series. ($197.00 value) Eight hours of fun, laser focused, cut to the chase, “git ‘r done” training on letting all the good stuff come in.
* HOW TO RECEIVE: Three LIVE phone classes of deep, inside secrets to freeing yourself from the bondage of your own thoughts, feelings and habits ($197.00 value)
* An optional HOW TO RECEIVE one on one LASER SESSION by phone or Skype. Troubleshooting your problem areas and moving into achievement and succes ($197.00 value)
Taken together, the cost of all of this is $441.00 USD.
I’m packaging it up and giving you a very early Christmas present at $97.00.
And if you want the optional LASER SESSION, it’s only $147.00.
Why so inexpensive?
Truth: I can fool around with numbers and scare away a few people who don’t see themselves as ready…or worthy of spending the money on themselves.
Or I can make it within the means of someone who wants more and is willing to move in confidence.
Because I LOVE being part of helping someone get happy, healthy, abundant and peaceful.
So that once and for all you stop being a VICTIM.
And start having some REAL fun!!
CLICK HERE to order HOW TO RECEIVE Spring Clearing at $97.00.
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Much Love,
Larry
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No, the condition of your finances, your health, your love life is no one else’s fault.
Just yours.
That’s the good news.
Because you will not only take control of it…
You’ll get to have make some of the best friends and partners of your life while you make things a hell of a lot better.
Come Out And Play!
Audio Archive: “42 Is The New 75″
CLICK HERE for five minutes of soul soothing truth about how to receive anything you want.
Recorded January 2009. I listen to this and realize…so many things I wanted back then are things I have now…because I followed my own advice.
Your Pal,
Larry
Stay Away From People Who Want To “Coach” You, Part Two
As I was saying….
A whole industry grew up around the desire to coach and be coached.
Someone understood the need for people to want to feel like they are in control of their lives.
So they said, “Coaching is the thing for you!”
And then someone else said, “Hey…you can BE a coach!”
Hmmmmmmm…
One of my friends told me how the first couple of coaching experiences she had were with people who wrote some really good sales copy and hit some of the sweet spots. She wanted to feel more in control of her life, and the websites she visited promised just that.
But when it came down to it, the coaching sessions turned into a gab fest…not much different from what you might hear in a bar on Friday night.
And yes…real money was changing hands.
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Recently I got an advertisement to become a coach using someone’s system. This person would train you in coaching, including how to market your coaching business.
I emailed, and asked for the credentials, including where her education and certification came from.
Never got an answer. But I did get unfriended and blocked pretty quickly!
I’m not picking on this person in particular, though I think this kind of approach is unethical and unprofessional.
See that word? Coaching is a profession.
Or at least to be effective, it should be.
There are skills you have to have in order to make it work.
You have to know how to listen.
You have to have enough internal security to let your client do most of the talking.
It has to NOT be about being needed to be heard, and to get recognition.
You have to see the big picture for your client.
You have to tell them the truth, and do so in a way they’re most likely to hear.
You have to have the small nuances of language so you can help your client move in the direction they would like to go.
You have to help them make plans.
And more than anything else….
You have to have the emotional security and success yourself to role model whatever it is your client would like to become.
That’s why so many have such a hard time with coaching…finding a good coach and BEING a good coach.
More Later, in Part Three.
Your Friend,
Larry
Stay Away From People Who Want To “Coach” You: Part One
Weird thought, huh?
Especially for someone who’s been in the counseling or coaching profession for the better part of the last 25 years.
Give me a minute to explain.
I look around Facebook and some of the other social networking sites (but especially Facebook), and I see a whole bunch of people positioning themselves as coaches and consultants.
They’re good people. All of them. They have a genuine desire to help.
They also have a genuine desire to want to be heard, to be listened to…
…to be liked.
The human need for recognition, to be liked, talked about, respected, is strong.
It is – without a doubt – the most common need most of us are walking around with.
I know…been there, done that.
Nothing wrong with it.
The problem comes when someone gets the idea in their head they can “coach” other people.
Even better…they can become Law of Attraction coaches!
(It’s 2011…do we still talk about Law of Attraction, or has that come and gone?)
People want to move forward in their businesses. They want to find the love they’ve been looking for.
They want to lose weight.
We know all the hot button issues.
And at one point they turned to a coach for help.
It’s cool stuff.
Counseling, coaching, mentoring…I’m all for it.
As long as it’s a qualified person…
And as long as there is some reasonable chance the person looking for coaching is going to grow from the experience.
Can it work?
Some of my clients have made lots of money.
Others have rekindled relationships.
Others have moved businesses forward.
Others have lost weight and gotten their health back.
The list goes on.
Plenty of others haven’t done anything with it.
Truth…it’s a funny thing.
It liberates us.
And points us in directions that seem hard in the beginning, but make us feel really good once we follow.
It also shows us how some of the things we’ve been doing were so bone-crunchingly wrong, we have to laugh at ourselves.
I coach, counsel, consult in truth.
Which means I’m very selective in who I will work with.
More soon.
Your Truth-Telling Pal,
Larry
P.S.: Yes, Law of Attraction is still law. The fad has come and gone. The principle is timeless. Own it, and let it bless your life.



