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What Were You Thinking?

May 11, 2016 By Larry Hochman 13 Comments

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There isn’t one of us who didn’t have a time in their life when we look back on later and say to ourselves…

What were you thinking?

Think back to one of your more embarrassing moments from the past. Whether it’s career, relationship, money, any kind of personal choice that turned out to be really bad. I mean really bad!

What were you thinking?

I’ll answer that for you right now.

You were thinking at the level of awareness you had at the time.

You were scared. Or angry. Or greedy.

Or you just didn’t know what you know now.

You can keep going back to that place if you want to. You can keep using the “what was I thinking” moment as your framer of reference. You can keep creating the same future based on your past.

Or you can recognize that every moment from the past blessed your present.

I don’t care how good or bad things are right this minute. I don’t care if you’re desperate, or happy, or hungry for something better.

I DO care that you see those moments as a building block. I care that you develop the grace and sense of humor and self-respect to leave them in the past.

I DO care that you make peace with whoever was involved in your “what were you thinking” moment. Whether they’re in your life or not. That includes yourself.

I DO care that you build your present day skills, awareness, and communication so that you get to laugh about those moments, while you celebrate all the good stuff that is happened.

So when you say to yourself, “what was I thinking,” you laugh instead of cringe.

Here is tool to help…

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My “baby.” And particularly relevant if you run in the home business space.

 

YOUR TURN

What was one of your “what were you thinking” moments?

How did you use it to get to a better place in your life?

Comment below. Like, share and Tweet above. Someone needs help moving from blame to appreciation.

 

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: Attraction Marketing, Learning from mistakes, Overcoming fear, Unconditional Love

The Hidden Psychology Of Failure

May 5, 2016 By Larry Hochman 13 Comments

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I recently recorded an audio training on the Hidden Psychology of Failure.

Didn’t know I was going to until just before I did.

But I looked around at so many of these magnificent people who keep banging their heads against the wall, with no success to show for it.

And I wanted to address it in a meaningful way.

CLICK HERE to download this 15 minute audio.

It can make a huge difference in your business, not to mention every other part of your life.

You have a real chance to make something great come from your life.

Let’s dig in.

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: Attraction Marketing, How To Be Confident, Learning from mistakes, Overcoming fear

Probation

April 27, 2016 By Larry Hochman 9 Comments

When you’re working out at L.A. Fitness, you don’t expect to overhear a conversation about someone whose probation was just violated.

How you respond says a lot about where you are…as a home business owner, as a marketer, as someone who is loving and open.

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: Attraction Marketing, Learning from mistakes, middle aged fitness, Video

Know How To Lose

April 25, 2016 By Larry Hochman 16 Comments

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Seems like a strange thing to say, doesn’t it.

I mean all of us know how to use. In every head to head competition, exactly half the players are going to lose.

That describes every one of us.

And when we strive to do something new, we fail. Often.

Unless we set our sights so insanely low that we never lose. But then, we never achieve anything.

That doesn’t describe you. Otherwise you would have never arrived at this post.

So yeah, in one sense we all know how to lose.

The thing is, most of us don’t know how to lose productively and constructively.

We internalize failure rather than use it as a platform for growth.

Think back to the last time you were reaching for something difficult, and you didn’t make it.

How did it feel?

What was your emotional response to failure? What was your first instinct? To lash out? To blame someone or something for the loss?

To play the victim card? “Poor me! I’m not smart enough/strong enough/good enough!”

Did you convince yourself you didn’t really want what you were striving for in the first place?

One of the modern classics of business and personal development is The One Minute Millionaire, by Robert G. Allen and Mark Victor Hansen. The fictional story around the lessons packs an emotional wallop.

One of the most memorable lines is in the nonfiction part. (Sheer genius: the left side of the book is the fictional story; the right side is a “how to manual” for becoming a millionaire. Both parts are in perfect sync.)

Four simple words…

Live Above The Line.

When we try at something and fail, there is a line. Below it is blame. It’s what I described a few paragraphs above. That negative emotional response to failure. It makes us afraid of risk, and leads to a spiral of underachieving and living small.

Above the line is learn. That is when we drop our defenses. Our need to blame someone or something for our lack of success.

Indeed, it’s where we stop seeing losing as a negative. It’s where we celebrate the chance to get stronger, smarter and better.

And for those who are really emotionally mature, it’s a chance to congratulate, make friends with and seek help from the winners.

Because who you spend most of your time and energy with is who you become.

And most winners really enjoy pouring into losers who embrace the experience, and decide to learn from it.

That’s how virtually all winners got to be winners in the first place!

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There’s one basic trick in knowing how to lose…

Stop thinking of it as losing.

Call it a step on the road to winning.

Or call it an awesome lesson.

Or call it a reminder that you aren’t yet ready for the success that comes with winning.

Change the emotional response to losing.

And get ready for a whole bunch of winning!

 

YOUR TURN

When was the last time you felt great about losing?

What kind of victory did it help you get ready for?

Comment below. Like, share and Tweet above. Someone is looking for your example in how to lose.

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: Attraction Marketing, coaching, Law of Attraction, Learning from mistakes, Overcoming fear

Healing The Pain Points

April 16, 2016 By Larry Hochman 10 Comments

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Pain Points

We all have them.

No matter how good someone’s life is going; no matter how much peace we’ve created within our being, how much forgiveness, how much stability…

If we dig deep enough we will find our Pain Points.

That’s not a bad thing. In fact, that’s the thing the drives us forward.

If everything was hunky dory all the time, there would be no motivation for us to change.

Some people will say, “if that’s the case, call them something else. Call them desire points, or dissatisfaction. Pain is a bad word.”

OK. But sometimes that describes what we’re in.

For some it’s obvious. There’s immense physical or psychic pain we are desperately trying to get out of.

Or financial pain, which is another form of psychic pain.

Unhealed hurts from the past.

It doesn’t matter how it looks to the outside world. It’s why some people who seem to have everything go home and put a gun in their mouth.

And it’s why some in end stage cancer, in physical agony reflect back nothing but love and gratitude for the life they were given.

Everyone’s Pain Points are different.

And from a counseling and coaching point of view, there are always things we can do to find them, address them and heal them.

Stop Asking Why

When a counselor, coach or therapist works with someone, the good ones will have them get into activity.

Not sit, wait and wonder why it’s not working.

And when they progress they always find their resistance. Their Pain Points.

When I’m working with someone and we find them, I don’t retreat. And I don’t do workarounds.

And I don’t beat on my clients to power through them.

Relax Into Them

We play with them. We honor them.

We let them speak to us.

We soothe the heart.

We overwhelm them with compassion and self-respect.

We eliminate the need for the resistance, quickly or slowly, whatever the case may be.

We become bigger than our hurt, bigger than our Pain Points.

Your Pain Points didn’t show up overnight. And they aren’t going away overnight either.

But with time, care, commitment and a plan, you can heal them a lot faster than if you let them sit in your subconscious forever.

Heal your Pain Points. You’re worth it.

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YOUR TURN

What has helped you find and heal your pain points?

Did it happen fast? Slow?

What were the benefits to your life when you healed them?

Comment below. Like, share and Tweet above. Someone is looking to you to help their healing.

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